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CynthiaCM's avatar

I recently had meetings with my six year old's teachers. Every single one of them said he needed some "maturing" before needing to test for ADHD (he has issues sitting still, especially around some of the (male) students in his class). While I agree that he may need some OT (he has a tendency to eat with his hands and still cannot handle a knife. He can use a fork and a spoon well enough but that isn't his preference unless it's necessary. Forget about chopsticks, which kind of breaks my child-of-Hong Kong-immigrant's heart), I'm not sure if it's functional or sensory. He won't say why he likes to eat with his hands, probably because he doesn't want to be judged (he knows that my husband and I aren't fans of it). Everyone is telling me to let him "just be a boy," but when is "just being a boy" normal and when does it become problematic?

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Claire Zulkey's avatar

I have an idea for a story for you bc I'm too tired to run it down myself -- what do the moms of the DOGE bois think about what they're up to? I would be pretty unhappy if my kids were up in government business following some drugged up promiscuous Pied Piper

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